From the experiences of the writer Baruti Ambakiseye (Carl Alexander) we get a witty , moving exploration of the struggle of a young man growing up in today's society while trying to understand the world's expectations. In essay analysis , The writer examines the struggle of growing up and learning about girls and women and relationships. His poems and lyrics lay open a heart that is crying out to be heard in the midst of struggle. There are also essays about contemporary issues such as the effect of Rap on the youth and the crisis in Education today. This is a important book which should be read by everyone who wishes to know what is going through the minds of our kids today.