This book is a guide for mature-age women rebuilding their lives after the breakdown and eventual divorce of a long-term marriage. Reinventing yourself as a woman who is now on her own and responsible for her own decisions is tough. You are no longer somebody's wife. Your adult children, possibly grandchildren and friends will be full of what you should do. But is that really what you want? This book has advice on how to manage your decisions to help you get through the 'I want my old life back' times, the 'heartbroken' times, the 'life is ugly' times. the 'pass me another wine' times and the 'what do I do now' times. Divorce is the gift that keeps on giving. By saying no, you help the grieving process along. You do this by reframing your thinking and making decisions for yourself. Over this process, you will build a meaningful life; one that that suits you, is 100% yours and it doesn't suck...