In the losing of an anticipated child, there are many emotions and questions that run through your mind. Why me? Why now? Did I do something wrong? As these questions come, a black cloud of pain and loneliness can envelop you and isolate you. You can get stuck in this place while you feel like no one else could possibly understand. Well, I do. I have walked down this path five times. I am extending my hand to you, my sister. Please, take hold and let me lead you through this suffocating experience. All you have to do is breathe and read as much as you can, when you can. I am here for you and with you. Remember ... just breathe.