This book is based on my experience and of fellow South African citizens who are employed, married to and renting accommodation from refugees. Xenophobia attacks in South Africa took place in May 2008 and there have been some attacks since then. It is important for citizens to live harmoniously with foreign nationals and learn skills and business acumen from them. The aim of this book is to challenge Black South Africans to forget the past damages caused by Apartheid and face the challenges of unemployment, lack of skills, poverty and HIV/AIDS through persevering to be better. For Black South Africans to stop complaining, going on strikes and do something economically viable. Some women marry foreign nationals for financial gain while the foreign national men marry to gain citizenship. Marriage should be for love for it to be fulfilling.About the Author: Doreen C. Mampani is a Christian author from South Africa. Her books are "Who Owns Your Soul", "Sin Tantalizers" and "Reigning Of The Refugee". Her books are based on her personal experience.