Any product requiring assembly comes with specific instructions to read all instructions carefully and completely before attempting to assemble. As always, however, there are those who feel they are beyond this warning and choose to disregard it. One can imagine the results. God has instructions also. Disregarding them, or trying to flip them to appease our own agendas, will lead to failure and disaster. God's Word is the formula for successful counseling and witnessing. To ignore it insures unsuccessful results.