Marriage can be a exciting milestone that many can not wait to cross of their lists. The thrill of planning weddings, booking honeymoon locations, and the thought of spending the rest of your natural life with someone you love can be invigorating. However, what happens when the excitement fades and you truly have to search for the purpose of the union? For many, including myself this is common issue. So common in fact, that it has led to the demise of the many marriages. Through my life experiences I share the impact of not understanding the purpose of marriage and the spouse. I pray that through this testimony you equipped with the necessary tools to become the spouse that God intended you to be in your marriage or matrimony to come.