Life is full of crazy, messy change. And, so, I'm pretty sure the way to change your mind and not look stupid is to embrace this notion, wholeheartedly.Messy is creative. It's fun. It's adventurous and complicated and exciting and sometimes it hurts but it makes us really FEEL alive and appreciate the wonderful times. It's the scenic route that takes us to places we never thought imaginable.It's making a decision and then changing our minds and heading down a different path. It's going back to what felt right. It's knowing that we never really know what we want until we find what we don't want.