This book aims to guide anyone who has an elderly relative living in care home (nursing care home or residential care home) on ways of observing and helping ensure that his/her relative receives the best quality care service available at this time when the care sector is seeing its greatest challenge. There is very missing connection between the Carer and the residents/relatives/friends who are all on the receiving end of a battered system. This memoir contains ways of building a sustainable partnership between Carers and relatives and improve the level of compassion in care service which their loved ones receive in either Residential Care Home, Nursing Care Home or Home Care. It contains practical advice for families and friends of people living with dementia and Alzheimer's Disease, Parkinson's Disease and other forms of disabilities.