Not long ago, a worried young lady came to me and complained that her friend was not satisfying her as much as she thought she deserved and then I realized that the hour had come. It's been ten years since I wrote my first sex guide for men, How to Become a Great Lover, and now it's time to explain to a man what he needs to know about sex in order to meet the growing needs of a woman - because she expects a lot from him! Over the past two years that I have spoken with men and women about their sexual experiences, I have made one important conclusion: women are now fully aware of their inherent right to receive sexual gratification. In my opinion, this is the most significant achievement of what is commonly called the sexual revolution.But the coin also has a downside: it is increasingly difficult for men to meet the growing needs of their girlfriends.Dr. Ruth Westheimer recently noted that "a woman who today considers herself entitled to explain to her lover how to stimulate her clitoris so that she reaches orgasm, does not intend to be deprived of this right."And this is absolutely true. But far from everything. From the fact that a woman declares her right to true pleasure on the bed of love, it does not at all follow that she has acquired enough knowledge and experience to help her partner give her this pleasure. (Well, except, perhaps, in those cases when she feels that her partner has found the "right path" and has the courage to say: "Do it in the same spirit."